It's so tempting to offer advice, especially when you just know that you could really help someone out. Do whatever it takes to avoid interfering right now, though. Bite your tongue -- hard. Tie a string around your finger and tug on it. It's absolutely imperative that people be allowed to make their own mistakes. If you keep rescuing them, they won't learn a thing -- except that you'll always be there to get them out of scrapes.