You are a big believer in the idea that telling it like it is, is the best way to solve problems. Of course, you're right. But when it comes to romance, everybody's a little bit hypersensitive. It's easy to tread on old wounds and hidden fragility and painful, defensive places. So, the 1st and 2nd, before you tell the object of your affections just exactly what it is you think, consider how you might cushion any potential blows. Be honest, yes. But be gentle too. By the 5th, you've reached a critical point. Have you met somebody new? Or are you considering taking an already existing romance to the next level? The 11th, something that's been unclear for you becomes a little more obvious -- and you could find that you're mighty tired. If so, take a nap. By the 15th, you're ready for some serious self-reflection. Be as honest with yourself as you are with others. The 20th, you could discover a problem. Don't forget that it's peoples' problems that help make them the complex and fascinating creatures they are. The 23rd and 24th, you're in for some pretty good days -- and you're looking absolutely fantastic, by the way. The 28th, 29th and 30th, start wrapping the month up with a little more bare-bones communications.
