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Does He Really Want a Relationship?
By: Tina L. Jones
Do you know if he really does want a relationship? Are you with a guy and need to figure out if he just sees you as a casual fling? Have you been hurt by men before and want to know how you can tell if he truly likes you too? Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith when it comes to romance. Everyone knows what it is like to be hurt, but finding true love means taking that risk. However, you can eliminate some risk by learning to tell if he really does want a relationship with you before you put yourself out there. Here is how to do it:

First, ask yourself if you are at the top or the bottom of his priority list. You can gauge your position with him by how often he is the one who calls. If you are the one who is constantly suggesting that next date, then you may have a problem. Let the guy do the chasing, or else you may end up running after someone who isn't into you.

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Second, ask yourself if the time that you spend together is quality time. If you suspect that he usually calls you last minute because he is bored, don't get impressed. Also, if you can tell that he doesn't put any thought or effort into planning out your dates, then he may only be contacting you when he has nothing better to do.

Last, you can tell if he wants a relationship or not by how he treats you around his friends. If your guy is comfortable telling his friends and family about you and inviting you to spend time with them, that is a clear indication that he wants a relationship. On the other hand, if you suspect that he is purposefully hiding you from them, then you need to get out and find someone who really wants to be with you.
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