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Make Up After the Fight
By: Mark J Hamilton
Fighting is normal. Every couple has to get through it. It's part of your growth as a couple and a team. It's a natural thing. Besides, you are two different individuals with different ideals, beliefs and way of thinking. However, if this happens constantly, it can also bring damage to your relationship. Talking about it is a must but what happens right after the big fight? Here are some tried and tested suggestions on what to do after a fight with your boyfriend. Remember: making up is not hard to do!

- Make sure you apologized sincerely. Sometimes, when your guy frets over the simplest things that you couldn't care less about, we tend to be insensitive and shrug off the problem. We apologize so the issue won't stretch. Bad move. Listen your boyfriend and make sure it's really not worth fighting about. Settle the issues and apologize sincerely if you have. It won't hurt you believe me.

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- Let him vent his anger. The more you shy away from your boyfriend every time he expresses himself, the more time you'll need to get over the issue. Let him talk about all he wants, listen and try to at least understand. Sometimes, guys just want you to hear them out and when you do, it's enough to calm them down.

- Wait for her next move. When you've apologized and fixed the problem, expect you're guy to still be a little heated up. Give him some room to breathe in. Show him everything's cool and that you've moved on from the issue and this will prompt her to do the same. At least, he can try. When he still won't, and you think it's getting worse, then it's time for a deeper discussion. Remember, you love your boyfriend so take time to be aware of his needs.
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