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Ways to Get Your Boyfriend to Commit
By: Tina L. Jones
Do you feel like you've tried everything but you just can't make him commit to you? Are you ready for a serious relationship with your guy? Do you feel frustrated and confused over the current state of your relationship? Sometimes it feels as though guys are programmed to run at the mere mention of the word "commit." However, believe it or not, most men actually do want a serious relationship-even as much as women do. The following article will show you how you can make him commit to you-without the resistance.

You really can't make him do anything that he's not feeling. However, what you can do to make him commit is to show him that you're ready and that you're patient and hopefully he will be right there with you.

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First, you need him to know that you want something serious. You should be honest about your intentions and what you want. This means that if you haven't already had sex with him, wait. If you jump right into a physical relationship with him he might mistake your intentions and think that you are simply looking for a fling. However, by holding off and letting a bond and friendship form, you are showing him that you are more serious about what you want.

You should also resist the urge to push him into something that he is not ready for. After you have let him know that you would like to be exclusive, wait. It might take him awhile to catch up with you. If this is true then he will appreciate your patience and like the fact that you aren't trying to rush him into anything.

By forging a friendship with him and using good communication you can make him commit to you as long as you are both happy within your relationship. Hopefully, the confusion will then clear up and the two of you can move along together nicely
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