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Win Your Jealous Ex Boyfriend Back
By: Shirly Smith
You can get your jealous ex boyfriend back and improve your relationship if you are still in love with him. You can excel in building a successful relationship with your ex boyfriend if you are willing to open your mind to get the right self improvement resources to make it relatively easy for you. All it takes is your commitment in giving yourself the time for great learning and re-discovery plus a couple of hours every day to practice and practice until it become second nature.

While it is tough to keep a long term relationship successful, it is tougher to keep your boyfriend from being jealous whenever you are with other boys. It will be wise at this juncture to understand the steps to win back your ex boyfriend and make him to trust you again so that you can enjoy a healthy, intimate and truly romantic relationship.

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Here's how you can win back your ex boyfriend.

1. Relationship research. When deciding on how to win back your ex boyfriend, you need to do some relationship research first to get a solid idea about the best ways to handle a jealous boyfriend. If you must build a long term relationship with your ex boyfriend, you must understand his personality and see if you can cope with him. Is he an abusive type? How best can you handle an abusive boyfriend? Will you be able to make him change his behavior? These are some of the issues you must deal with at this point.

2. Show you are not needy and desperate. This is the real key to get your jealous ex boyfriend back. If you want your ex boyfriend to want you again and get him to call you and beg for forgiveness, you must never show desperation or look needy. Most importantly, never beg your ex boyfriend. Asking him to forget the past and reignite the passion is more honorable than begging. If you want to impress your ex boyfriend with your new person, you must never show weakness. You must strive to be an independent-minded person.

3. Develop yourself. Your ex boyfriend will most likely want to have you back when you show that you are a much better and pleasing person since the breakup. People like to associate with successful people. As long as you do not go about calling and begging him, you stand a good chance of winning him back. Mingle with respectful and popular people and you will be seen as popular.
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4. Test your ex boyfriend. You need to pay attention to small details that might have affected the relationship when you get your jealous ex boyfriend back. Make it a habit to test him if he is still the jealous type. Let him know that you will be there for him as long as he is ready to commit to the relationship. Make sure that you eliminate issues that will give him cause to be jealous.

5. Find the best time and place to approach him. Once you have developed your plan of actions on how to win back your ex boyfriend, make sure you find the best time and place to approach him and talk to him. Do not beg while you are with him. Ensure the meeting is open and friendly for quiet discussions. I recommend that you meet at the favorite place you both frequent.
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