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Ways to Get Him to Give His Heart to You
By: Tina L. Jones
Do you feel like you have tried everything but that you just can't make him fall in love with you? Have you ever wondered why guys are so much slower when it comes to building emotional bonds? Are you ready for a committed relationship but just don't think that he's there yet? It can be very frustrating when you know that you're in love but your partner just doesn't seem to be on the same page as you. You probably feel like giving up and moving on, but you shouldn't. Instead, there are some ways that you can give him a little push, without pushing him away. In this article, you will find ways that you can make him fall in love without scaring him off.

There used to be rules set in stone when it came to how to go about relationships. There were things that women should and shouldn't do, as well as timelines as far as when those things should be done. There were also clearly defined roles in the relationships. Men pursued the women while women sat back and acted demure, waiting to be chosen.

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These are no longer true. Now, things have changed, hopefully for the better.

Today, women are more empowered than ever. Women can initiate conversations, relationships, and even sex. However, this has confused men. Now, men aren't always sure what their role is supposed to be. With women taking over some of the things that men used to do, they don't know what to do next.

Men are also starting to wonder if women actually need them. Since the old dating rules no longer apply, things can sometimes seem to be topsy-turvy as far as relationships go. So what should women do to help this?

Well, some of the old rules concerning men weren't that bad, especially if you want to make him fall in love with you. A man must feel needed and wanted in order to feel an emotional connection with a woman. It is that emotional connection that will eventually lead them to love.
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It's okay to approach a man and initiate a conversation with him and to let him know that you are interested. However, let him ask you out first, even if you hint at it and put the idea in his mind. He will feel in control of the situation. Men like to feel as though they are the pursuant.

Don't some on too strongly or put too much pressure on the man in the very beginning. If you start talking commitment up front, it is going to scare him off, even if he is looking for a committed relationship.

Men work a little bit more slowly than women. For this reason, keep a slow pace as far as the relationship is concerned. Don't rush him and instead, try to enjoy where the relationship is at-not where it's bound.
Repress your urge to shout out your undying love for him.

Keep your expectations reasonable and don't put too much pressure on him in the beginning. By creating security and a loving environment for him that he feels safe in, you will soon make him fall in love with you, resulting in a committed and healthy relationship.
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