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By: Philip Powdrill

Not everyone is a born flirt so to capture the attention of the opposite sex, learning a few flirting tips is a must. Even if you're no Casanova you can still "fake it" like a pro with these tips that will help you look great and break the ice with ease.

The most effective trick in your flirting bag is a smile. A beautiful, inviting smile is the best way to draw someone into conversation with you. It warms and lightens the mood making you instantly more approachable. No one wants to flirt with a brooding grump. Smiling shows the positive, happy and nice person you are.

Men will hit it out of the park with good posture and great clothes. When you're approaching or talking with a man, keep your shoulders straight and broad. Look strong and confident. Always wear clean, pressed clothes. Women definitely notice well-dressed (and not-so-well-dressed) men!

Especially for women, your clothing can actually do the flirting for you when you wear it right. The look you're going for alluring and sensual - not cheap. Outfits that hint at what's underneath, like a scooped neckline or a figure-hugging silhouette, are far sexier and intriguing than outfits that bare it all.

Especially in the summer months, showing a little skin on your shoulders, upper arms or back can be very tantalizing. Keep your skin clean, clear, and smooth. Beautiful, artfully revealed skin will have men crossing rooms to talk to you.

Finally, break the ice with a little humor. Men love women who can make them laugh. So play around, have fun, or point out something humorous about the current situation. Whether your sense of humor is silly, dry or oddball, humor can be a sure-fire conversation starter that sets a lighthearted tone. For men, once you've made her laugh, offer her a drink and you'll be well on your way to a fun and interesting evening.